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Months old
This is the family compass. When we're tired, busy, or unsure, this page remembers what matters: Kai healthy and confident, six doors open to the world, parents present and rested, and a childhood he'll remember as warm. Everything below serves that.
Both parents book infant BLS training. This card is a reminder, not a substitute.
No deadlines, just the next right moves. Check them off as they land. Progress saves on this device.
Citizenship status board. Sequence: certain tracks first, US last pending Elle's evidence and the tax conversation. Full processes live in the vault playbook.
One event at 1 month, fully recovered, on propranolol. Watch-signs live on the emergency card. Next checkup: ask about the weaning timeline and recurrence watch-window. Complete records copied to the family vault for any future country.
Iron-rich first foods. One new allergen at a time, all big-9 before 12 months. Feed to appetite, never to size, weight-for-length trend is the only number that matters for a big strong boy.
Dengue protocols from ~1 year (screens, repellent). Air-quality awareness on bad days. Hand-foot-mouth once playgroups start. Typhoon go-bag has baby supplies + 2 weeks of medication.
Kai's schedule anchors the household 10 PM keystone. Regression playbooks ready at 8, 12, 18, 24 months. A rested Dad is the whole game.
5-10 minutes minimum, every day. It's the Dad-specific lever: self-regulation, courage, body confidence. Graduates with him: floor play now, chase and wrestle at walking, throw-catch and risky-play-within-reach after.
Each language needs one consistent source. French from Elle daily (a French passport deserves a French speaker), English as household base, Filipino ambient. Lock the plan while he's pre-verbal.
No passive screens, no exceptions except video calls with family. After 18 months: co-viewed only, tiny doses. The transfer deficit is real; the world teaches better.
Sitting, crawling, first words, walking, tracked in the vault, celebrated loudly. Big and strong means furniture anchoring matters more, not that milestones come due sooner.
The research behind every claim on this page. Full reports live in the family vault; this is the index. Rendered read-on-site versions are the next build phase.