This is the family compass. When we're tired, busy, or unsure, this page remembers what matters: Kai healthy and confident, six doors open to the world, parents present and rested, and a childhood he'll remember as warm. Everything below serves that.
Both parents book infant BLS training. This card is a reminder, not a substitute.
Check them off as they land. Progress saves on this device.
Citizenship status board. Sequence: certain tracks first, US last pending Elle's evidence and the tax conversation. Full processes live in the vault playbook.
One event at 1 month, fully recovered, on propranolol. Watch-signs live on the emergency card. Next checkup: ask about the weaning timeline and recurrence watch-window. Complete records copied to the family vault for any future country.
Iron-rich first foods. One new allergen at a time, all big-9 before 12 months. Feed to appetite, never to size, weight-for-length trend is the only number that matters for a big strong boy.
Dengue protocols from ~1 year (screens, repellent). Air-quality awareness on bad days. Hand-foot-mouth once playgroups start. Typhoon go-bag has baby supplies + 2 weeks of medication.
Kai's schedule anchors the household 10 PM keystone. Regression playbooks ready at 8, 12, 18, 24 months. A rested dad is the whole game.
5-10 minutes minimum, every day. It's the dad-specific lever: self-regulation, courage, body confidence. Graduates with him: floor play now, chase and wrestle at walking, throw-catch and risky-play-within-reach after.
Each language needs one consistent source. French from Elle daily (a French passport deserves a French speaker), English as household base, Filipino ambient. Lock the plan while he's pre-verbal.
No passive screens, no exceptions except video calls with family. After 18 months: co-viewed only, tiny doses. The transfer deficit is real; the world teaches better.
Sitting, crawling, first words, walking, tracked in the vault, celebrated loudly. Big and strong means furniture anchoring matters more, not that milestones come due sooner.